weight loss cardiff answers:

When you say that a woman needs to lose weight, she hears a lot more then just constructive criticism. (99% of the time)

To a woman, someone suggesting that they need to lose weight isn’t exactly a warm friendly voice suggesting that they might feel better if they ate more fruits and vegetables. Instead, it’s someone telling them they are fat, that they are unattractive. That you don’t appreciate her body and don’t see why anyone else would.

Now, a mature woman (probably mid 20’s or older) would probably think that you, (or whoever is saying they need to lose weight) is a jerk and more or less brush it off, but unfortunately many, and I do mean many women out there are well, insecure about their appearance for one reason or another.

I don’t know how long you’ve been on Yahoo Answers, but I myself have already seen quite a few Questions from girls asking if they look okay, if they look fat, if they are pretty etc, etc. What I’m getting at, is that you shouldn’t even really have to go outside to know that…

“they get all upset when I don’t think I should be more worried about it then they are”. What does that even mean, that you didn’t have any real emotion attached to the comment? Well couldn’t you have thought of how that might come across?

Now look, I’m not trying to “rebuke” you, and frankly it’s not like I get out much, I don’t have that much experience with women, I’m just trying to answer your question.

This is somewhat off topic, but in my experience women hold a grudge far more easily and for much longer periods of time then males, I don’t understand why, I’m not trying to judge, and I really hate to stereotype but that’s the way it seems to be. (to me).

I mean just about everybody I’ve talked to on that particular subject has said that they’ve seen guys shake hands or even hug eachother within less then ten minutes of someone throwing a punch, but if you’ve ever witnessed a “cat-fight”, I seriously doubt it’s worked out that way. Just thought you might want to consider that.

weight loss cardiff answers:

OK. Slow down. And take a breath with me. First off stop using so many cleaners. The fact is that your skin could be getting acne because the pores are to sensitive so they get clogged up easily with oil. What kind of skin type do you have? Is it oily, just acne prone, normal, combination etc? I’ll need to know that before I can tell you where to go on next with that. You can contact me at bastet_ur_goddess@yahoo.com if you so wish, I’d really like to try to help you figure out what’s going on. And if you choose not to contact me then at least take this bit of advice . . Exfoliate (the removing of dead skin cells and excess oil and build up) at least once if not 2 times a week. It’ll do wonders.

Now on to the weight thing. . . It’s not impossible to lose that much weight in a month but the ways to get there are EXTREMLY unhealthy. Try exercising for 5 days a week before you eat anything. The exercise before you eat will cause your metabolism to get a kick start. Next try to cut sodas out of your diet (only like one a day). When it’s time to snack try instead of a little debbie cake (my fav are the swiss rolls, it’s a guilty pleasure) go for a fruit. Try an handful of grapes, an apple, or even tortilla chips and salsa (supposedly thats rather healthy)

Now Let me say that your mom is right. Your going through puberty and it’s normal to gain weight but you can still try to stay fit if you want to. I know exercise makes me feel really good about myself.

Oh and one thing that will help you with both of your issues is water water water. Now if your like me your going yuck right now. But water will help your skin and it helps you lose AND keep off weight. So remember to grab the recommended 64 oz. Or 8 glasses a day (or as close as possible to that). And you should check out your BMI (Body Mass Index) to see if your healthy which I’m sure you are.

Good Luck and I hope to hear from you soon.

weight loss cardiff answers:

Yes, there is a lot you can do to stabilize your kitty and give her a good quality of life. Vets always say they are terminal, and that is becuase the damage is not healable. However, you can prevent further damage and many people have kept their cats living for years using some simple treatments. My kitty lived two years after diagnosis, when the vet said only two weeks.
First, go to yahoo groups and find the crf group. They are very knowledgable in care and inexpensive care. Second, make sure you have a vet on YOUR side, wanting to care for your pet. If your vet simply says, CRF is uncurable, look for one who is affordable who is willing to prescribe some simple things to help your kitty. I am by no means rich and easily afforded my kitty’s care with extras.
Make sure you know the cause — an 8 year old cat is not getting it from old age. Is it acute? Poison or infection related? That tells you what you need to treat to make her recover.
It is likely that you need to give your kitty some water, which helps many kitties live a LONG time by itself. The treatment is simply injecting water under the kitty’s skin. A lot of people think it sounds scary, but kitty’s needle each other all the time, and my kitty easily got used to it, especially since it made her feel better. As she recovered, she needed the fluids less and less. Go to www.bricomedicalsupplies.com for very very affordable supplies to do this — you can treat your kitty for as long as a year for just $100, when a vet will sell you just a week’s worth of treatment for like $20-40 so you can see the benefit.
Is your kitty getting treatment? It is also important to know her BUN and Creatinine to know how far along she really is. Please feel free to email me anytime, I have done a LOT of research and my kitty made a recovery to the point she needed virtualy no treatment and lived like a playful kitten for two years until something else came along (her real problem was recurrent infections). Please take care and cuddle your kitty for me. It is hard to tell, some kitties live weeks, some months some years. More information could help people who have dealt with this answer you more specifically. Vitamin B is another good thing.. Take care, my thoughts are with you.

PS, there are a variety of kidney foods your kitty can eat. My kitty did poorly on KD and was starving even though she ate it since it lacks the phosphorous but also lacks protein (whcih is not necessary). She did TONS better on Innova Lite, which has protein but low phosphorous which is what we want. So no, your kitty is not necessarily going to start dying if you feed her something besides kidney diet, my kitty improved when off kidney diet. Vets will tell you that though, since they encourage everyone to pts instead of treating. I did end up pts when the time was right, but before that my kitty did not even need pepcid because she was not even nauseous and her numbers stabilized from BUN 100 plus and Creatinine off the charts to Creat 2s-3s and barely above normal BUN even without the kidney diet.
Also, my cat WANTED to live longer, so pts is not always the answer until you know whether you can make your kitty better. My cat lived two more years of a full life, where she needed hardly any treatments, ate well, played, had no nausea, etc. — she was very happy. It was worth it to me to give her those extra years, but when she did start to suffer and wanted to be let go, I obeyed her wishes. All the best in this difficult time.